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November 8 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

Dr. Skinner Answers: Since discovering my husband’s affair and pornography use I find that I constantly compare and objectify other women around me. How do I stop this?  

November 6 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

So many women in our community are stuck. They’re fighting, doing everything they can to hold on. To survive each day. They’re exhausted and overwhelmed by trauma, surrounded by triggers, paralyzed by shame and fear. Searching and often praying for a way forward.We believe you have so much to give, so much to accomplish. You’re creative, […]

October 25 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

Dr. Skinner Answers: Over the last few months my relationship has totally fallen apart. I am frantic. What can I do to calm my mind? I feel like I’m losing my mind. I struggle to get simple tasks done. Why am I having such a hard time getting through this?  

October 18 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

Dr. Skinner Answers: I feel so stuck. Am I going crazy?  

October 13 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

When faced with the storms of life take courage… be a buffalo ?  

October 12 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

By Dr. Kevin Skinner, Therapist, Author, Co-Founder of Bloom   “I almost feel paralyzed. Like I can’t stop thinking about my marriage and questioning if any of it has been real. Did he ever really love me or have I just been lying to myself? Have I ever been good enough for him?” I sat […]

October 11 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

Dr. Skinner Answers: How can I move beyond the trauma of Infidelity?  

October 4 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

Dr. Skinner Answers: My husband and I are working to repair our relationship following his infidelity and compulsive sexual behavior. What is a good way to respond to his statement that I do not love him unconditionally? I am trying to love him, but I want him to get help and he refuses to get […]

September 27 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

Dr. Skinner answers: How do you approach intimacy after betrayal from infidelity and/or compulsive pornography use?  

September 20 2017
Kevin Skinner, PhD, LMFT, CSAT, EMDR-C

Dr. Skinner Answers: How do you deal with triggers after infidelity?